On People's Addiction to Porn: Porn Is Not Sexy

I think I can understand why people are so attracted to porn; after all, it's a bit of a taboo in our society for people to watch porn--vulgar and of bad taste? People are more likely to watch it in secret because it's suggested to be an embarrassing habit, but I will admit that there is a certain lure to porn, besides the aspect that it's a taboo, it's pretty damn visual. And if you're a male OR a female that hasn't had an orgasm in a while or that's curious about the human anatomy then it's perfectly acceptable to watch porn.

However, porn isn't all that sexy. People can bring up as many fetishes, whips, and perverted items and role-playing they want to spice up intercourse, but it's the little things as well as the things that are hidden that can make someone really groan . I guess I'm trying to put forth that foreplay can invoke more lust than porn, there's far more thought, innuendo, and suggestions in little gestures than there is in porn. Porn is exaggerated, too much 'Wham Bam' and not enough "Oooh". There's no enticement in it.

When things are drawn out, it's more satisfying. I like when I can see the outline of a man's broad shoulders or the leanness of their hips. I like when a guy grazes his finger over your hip by accident or over your face. I like it when hints of nudity, not complete nudity, like in Britney Spear's Womanizer MV.

Porn isn't sexy because there's no plot. It's just sexual release. Sexy is when two people build up their tension and have some form of feeling for each other before it culminates into sex, originally known by romantics as love-making.